How To Be Successful At A Job Interview

I’ve had the opportunity to interview over a hundred candidates in my career from entry level hires to Director+.  Here are 12 things you should know about interviewing.  

  1. Remember, these are people just like you and I.  You want to make a good impression, treat them like you’d want to be treated.  Be polite, confident and welcoming.
  2. Go in and make a good first impression.  Smile, shake their hands (or fist bump if it’s covid!) and make eye contact.  A good smile shows enthusiasm and confidence.
  3. Dress the part.  Your nails and hair should be clean and well presented.  It’s OK to ask your recruiter or the person setting up the interview what the typical dress code is.  If it’s in person, don’t overwhelm with perfume, cologne or aftershave.  Guys, don’t wear AXE!  I’m sorry, but this isn’t a high school locker room.
  4. Think about how you sit, sit back in the seat but don’t sprawl.  Use good posture, talk with your hands and don’t take up all the space or cower in.
  5. Make eye contact, it is usual to make the person who asked the question the person of main focus (If a panel).  Remember to scan the room if it’s a panel so everyone feels included.  Looking at your hands, the floor or out of the window is a real turn off.
  6. Have your narrative ready for the, “so tell us a little about yourself” question. I have this scripted out.  Think about the highlights and what you’ve learned from them.  If you have passions, outline them.  If you have led, explain who you led and how.  Show some pride in who you are!  
  7. Watch the interviewer’s body language.  Mirror how they present themselves.  If they are a little more reserved, pull back a little.  If you find them to be a personality, don’t be afraid to animate! 
  8. Prepare thoroughly, research what the job entails.  Consider the skills and knowledge base needed and do a self-audit comparing it with what you have to offer.  Enthusiasm and energy for the position can often make up for lack of credentials, particularly if it’s obvious that you have done your research and have the potential to learn.
  9. Listen carefully; if you don’t understand what they want ask them to repeat the question.  It’s ok to be a little conservative.  Slow it down and don’t rush or be rushed.  Many interviews are also lost because the candidate doesn’t actually listen to the question.
    • Think about exactly what they are asking, what do they need to know? Is it referring to particular skills, knowledge, principles, understanding, your experience etc. 
  10. Use the question as a platform to sell yourself.  Use the question to give concrete examples of what you have done/can do.  Use narrative and create the connection between your anecdote and the question.
    • IE Tell me about a failure and something you learned from that failure
      • When I was a young man I was learning how to skateboard.  I had a lot of scrapes, bruises, 2 broken wrists and a broken tail bone!  However, I kept at it and eventually took on to compete in street skating tournaments.  Although I hurt myself quite a bit along the way, I learned through perseverance and vision that I could accomplish a goal.
  11. If you don’t know something it isn’t the end of the world, but BE HONEST.  Interviewers would rather hear, I don’t know but I’d be really keen to learn than discover too late that you have been dishonest. 
  12. Remember that most people who interview are also anxious, the success of their business is dependent on hiring the right people.  Do your best, be yourself and if you don’t get the job ask for feedback on your interview.  In this way the interview becomes part of your professional development and not a failure.     Good Luck!

How To Talk To Anyone, Anywhere, In 10 Steps

The art of conversation is timeless. Humans are social creatures and in order to be successful, you are going to need to navigate humanity. Here are 10 tips to help you talk to anyone.

  1. Make a good first impression with eye contact and a smile
    • People often only remember the first and last thing about you. Smiling is a sign of confidence, kindness and empathy. When you look someone in the eyes, it’s a display of trust and attention.
  2. Mirroring – Replicating certain words and motions of the person you’re speaking with. Mirroring lets the other side know you’re paying attention to what they’re saying and treating their views with the close consideration they believe they deserve.
    • Mirroring could also be repeating key words used by the person you are speaking with. Don’t overuse this!
      • An example of this could be, “I’m a huge fan of The Cowboys, but I’m very disappointed in the draft.” You could respond, “The Cowboys Draft?” Then the person will dig in with more details.
  3. Be Complimentary – People like to feel good about themselves. If you pay someone a compliment (In a non-creepy way!), it’s going to make them feel good about themselves because of something you just said, you’ll immediately have a friend!
  4. Use We and Us in your conversation. It immediately makes people feel like they’re in it with you. This creates a sense of community.
  5. Ask the person you are speaking with, how they’re connected to whatever event you are at and figure out who the two of you have in common.
    • If you are at a party, an easy question is, “How are you connected to everyone here?”
    • If you are at a work event, “What do you do at the company? Do you know…?”
    • If you are at a kids sporting event, “Which kid is yours?!”
  6. When you meet someone for the first time, be excited and treat them as if you are already friends. That’s going to make easing into conversation easier. Be happy to be with them.
  7. When you are asked the inevitable question of where are you from and what do you do. Answer in a long form, not a short.
    • An example of this could be, “Where are you from?” “I’m from a town in Northeast Indiana, are you familiar with Indiana?” OR “I build jet engines for Boeing, but not the ones you heard about in the news!”
  8. Be Interested
    • The best way to be interesting, is to be interested! Ask the person follow up questions, play dumb about a subject if you have to. People like to talk about things they’re interested in, ask questions.
  9. Practice pauses
    • In conversation, you don’t need to respond immediately. Sometimes allowing a pause gives the person your speaking with more time to put their thoughts together. Just don’t let it be uncomfortably long!
  10. If you are feeling bold, bust out a few ice breakers!
    • What’s the single best item you’ve bought in the last year?
    • If you could only keep 3 apps on your phone, what 3 apps would you keep?
    • Who is your favorite fictional character? Who is your favorite historical figure?

The Importance of Branding Yourself and Some Guiding Questions For You Who Haven’t

I had a buddy in high school who used to fire bottle rockets out of his hindquarters, had people pay him to watch get crazy piercings and would get naked parties because he was the “fat naked guy.” This was his brand. I won’t give his nickname as to not incriminate him, he’s changed very much from those days. His brand was the big naked crazy guy. He was also one of my buds.

I have another very close person in my life who grew up in apartheid Zimbabwe. He couldn’t walk on the sidewalk until he was 14 years old. He was the only black kid in his high school and he had to bust his ass through primary school to have an inkling of a chance to even get to high school. Then to get to college, this guy organized a 120+ kilometer run (just over 3 marathons) over the course of 3 days from his high school to the country’s capital to raise money for an orphanage. He didn’t realize when he was organizing this run that a scholarship would be the result, but it was!

This guy branded himself as the guy who will get shit done. By 27, apartheid was lifted and he ran a company with 4,000 employees. By 40, he chaired multiple publicly traded companies and by 50 he retired. His brand was that of an executive. He was a leader. He was a capitalist. He told me that he branded himself as all of these things early and he never stopped!

We are all responsible for the brand we want to project for ourselves. This is something we need to start thinking about now and forever. What do we want to be, how do we want to be perceived and how are we going to start projecting that image out to the world?

This is not something we are taught in school and I think it’s a shame. Our brand is our everything. Who the hell are you?! If this is something you haven’t thought about, it’s something you must begin to think about. We are one in a world of billions. We are competing for jobs, attention and resources. What are you going to contribute? What are you going to create or what are you going to add value to?

If you haven’t started to think about your personal brand, I want to give you a homework assignment. This is real, it’s grown up shit! If you want to grow and compete, you need to start thinking about this.

Here it is, before you do anything else, write down these questions and answer them.

  1. Do you have a superpower? Is there something you can do better than anyone else, or even better than most?
  2. If you could picture your dream self in 5 years, what would that dream self look like? This could be physical, mental, financial, social or all.
  3. What do people praise you for and what do you want to be praised for?
  4. What gets you fired up? What makes you the most excited version of you?
  5. Now, a bit deeper into the woods — How do I define myself and why do I matter?
  6. What’s my mission in life and what do I believe in?
  7. Finally, what would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?

Answer these questions and remember, we are the authors of our own destiny. We can be the crazy naked guy at parties or we can run industries, let’s go make something happen!